WHERE WILL YOU BE AFTER COLLEGE?
where will you after college? is a question that has popped up in the mind of many students at one point in their life or the other.
Do you know that some people by the end of college will have nowhere to go back to?
This is true because everybody points hands to the government.
The question is, what have you done on your part as a student?
No, they have not.
Many people will be moving round and round till time go against them.
Some groups of people have never questioned their minds before while studying.
That is why most of them never truly discovered that they are more than they are now.
Do you have a question on your mind?
Students and Graduates
Everyone, at some point in their lives, starts asking critical questions about lives.
Just asking these questions without thinking deep and putting something in place will result in nothing.
At this point in life, you choose from the two roads ahead of you.
This is either being lazy or solving the problem in front of you.
In this life, there are essential questions that should be asked always, and these questions are
This very question is not a question of place, it is a question of activity and survival.
will you fall or will you be among those making severe changes?
Why are things the way they are now?
This question is very important as it implies that there is an anomaly in the current way of life.
Maybe the current way of life is not favorable and appealing to you and anyone around you.
A self questions to examine yourself
How did things turn out the way it is now?
This is a question of reflections after trying so many things and the person is trying to find back his way back to his former route.
What will I do to correct this effect?
This is a question of trying to fix things that have already spoilt but with technicality.
If this question has never popped into your head before, then I should be asking you these questions.
what you have been thinking all your life?
This series of questions is what brings us close to adulthood, but trying to solve them is what makes us different from others around us.
This is because some people will think of these anomalies in their hearts but might be afraid of stepping out to solve them.
If you start asking these questions of life very early in life.
you might avoid the question of “how you ended up making mistakes” and move forward without regrets.
Preparation is one of the concepts that was born with a man, both old and small. After all, just like a mother prepares herself to put to birth.
This helps the mothers to plan for the family extensively.
While you are going to school you can prepare and train yourself in other things that will be useful to your life shortly after you graduate.
How does this work?
Take, for example, you are studying computer science, you can prepare ahead of time to advance yourself by learning extra computer programming than what you have been taught, which was not originally taught to you.
You can do this by putting your free time to use.
this is because after you are done with the program that you are studying you must step out to the real worlds.
You must prove what makes you different from others.
which means that people will be expecting something from you as a college student or a graduate.
There is always an added knowledge that will push you further than you are.
The question is, will you able to harness the needed knowledge before you?
Preparedness, tells you that there is an opportunity somewhere and that you need to prepare to take it.
What has affected our senses of hard works and better prediction of life is not being prepared.
So many things make us take life for granted as a graduate and they are
Sometimes when we don’t struggle for what we need or want, they fall on to our feet without stress.
We rarely appreciate the importance of things got without struggle, till they are gone.
Now, the things that affect our sense of hard works and as well as natural prediction of life as a graduate are
people naturally become lazy and see it as something that does not need your concern.
You go for things that will likely not have any better outcome because we want to probably avoid hard work.
Have you ever wanted to do something and the process is a long one, and on top of it has so many uncertainties attached to it?
That is what laziness will be insinuating not hard work
This is exactly what breeds laziness because people don’t want to go the extent of doing all the process and end up with nothing at the end of the road.
Idealism as against Realism:
People immerse themselves in the world of ideas to calm their fear… the fear of the unknown is very dangerous
it drives people to be impatient.
The fear of the unknown reduces the uncertainty of the result.
So people naturally want to stay in the world of ideal where they feel there is no pain.
In the world of the ideal, you can control things the way you want it to be.
How to overcome hindrances of and uncertainty of life as a graduate
Many people have tried to overcome the shadow that hunts them a lot. They want to be free from the void and idealism of life.
Idealism is good, but no one should dwell on ideals for too long.
For one to overcome such uncertainty, one should be educated on the general effect of life.
one should be educated on the kind of determination needed to break free from the illusionary aspect of life.
Nothing is so easy and nothing is so hard as well.
Picture the opportunity coming to you as a graduate
Without foresight, you cannot perceive what is coming to you.
It is not necessary to see it but feeling it and believing, will allow you to work hard.
Being consistent and persistent about the things you want the most, pays a lot.
Picture your success in front of you as a graduate
When you want to overcome any form of laziness, uncertainty as well as to motivate yourself it is easier to picture yourself succeeding in the things you desire the most.
It is also good that you will feel it coming to you, it is a flow of energy.
Also, don’t forget extracurricular activities in your life when you are a college student