trust issues in college
trust issues in college is an article written with the campus student in mind.
it is an article I believe will change a lot things and make a lot of imparting.
There are friends that will contribute to your future but they can not take your personality or assume the future.
changing a friend
The truth of the matter is, you can not change your friend’s lifestyle.
You can not convince people to live the way you do or to like the things you like either.
This is except it happened when you were little because at that point you can be easily convinced.
demonstration with the story of Simeon
Simeon had a rough life that changed him a lot.
He stopped, caring about people and he started becoming agitated over little things.
Simeon enters the university thinking he can trust anyone until he got manipulated.
Had he understood things earlier he would not have an issue.
Unfortunately, he trusted that people would be just like him because he would not hurt anyone, no matter how bad the situation is.
But he was very much mistakenly.
A little analysis
In the university community, you should suspect everyone because people pretend a lot.
And even while in the outside world suspect everyone, that makes it a lot easier to live in the world.
In the other sense, it makes sense to trust people sometimes this is because it makes one comfortable to do so.
People who run to meet
In this life, there are people who run to meet you.
These people want something from you.
It is good to allow these persons because it makes you feel the confidence that there are things you can do for them.
And, it will improve you and also make you popular.
People who you run to meet
There are people who you run to meet you, these are people who you expect something from.
You expect things like knowledge, wisdom, and opportunities.
It is generally good to associate with these people because it will open closed doors for you and create a good network system for you.
People of the same level as you
There are people who are on the same level as you in the lather.
They are in the form of course mates, colleagues, partners, etc.
These types of people need a mutual understanding.
It helps always improves competition within themselves.
Listen, One thing about competition, it is generally good for someone to compete against himself.
This is because if you compete against yourself you will continue to grow but when you compete with someone when the person stops or goes down you might likely follow.
These are the things you should do before trusting.
Test people before you trust them.
I know it is easier to trust people because testing them takes time.
But trust is a treasure, you must give it to those that are worth it.
Helping is good but always try not to think of getting back.
When you help let it be out of empathy.
It will serve a longer and better purpose than when you do it for the sake of pride.
So be careful in whatever you do. do not hurt others just to feel powerful or to satisfy your curiosity.
Weigh the consequence of what you are doing because karma always has his way of settlement.
You can also power up more on an article on the trust-related issue